From cleath@u.washington.edu Wed May 22 00:02:35 1996 Return-Path: <cleath@u.washington.edu> Received: from localhost by saul7.u.washington.edu (5.65+UW96.04/UW-NDC Revision: 2.33 ) id AA26018; Wed, 22 May 96 00:02:21 -0700 Date: Wed, 22 May 1996 00:02:21 -0700 (PDT) From: Colin Leath <cleath@u.washington.edu> Reply-To: Colin Leath <cleath@u.washington.edu> To: lovers:; Message-Id: <Pine.OSF.3.92a.960521210439.10906C-100000@saul7.u.washington.edu> Mime-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: TEXT/PLAIN; charset=US-ASCII Status: RO X-Status: What do you think is beautiful? What do you think is love? I know a lot of stuff is unclear over email- and I haven't even read over the first two I sent, I was feeling sort of disgusted with myself.. You see alot of you guys have other things to do I guess- you're living with real people doing real things. I was trying to decide what living is...it is being with certain people. the thing is, I don't want to do anything, unless you do (a lot of the time) I don't feel like going out and climbing a rock or taking a walk, all by myself, but if you want to go, and with me, that is what I want to do most of all- so what is living. Sara is someone I know from the herb garden, and she mentioned poetry, so I thought she might be an english major, and we talked about reading. She says, "I learn a lot from books." I feel worse about reading than I do about writing, the idea is, that when you are creating, you are living- but when you are creating often you work from a past emotion like I am writing you about what has happend, what I've thought about, though sometimes it is a little different- in going over that stuff I typed/copied in, I was attempting to read and comprehend what was going on, but still we only have our past experience to work with. Sometimes, creating- I want to draw Adar, sitting in that class, I want to sit there and look at her and draw her face, her eyes, and I would cry as I did it. Sometimes, creating, is living, living is emotion, feeling, joy or sad, awe at beauty. or what is it? In art class in highschool we did pencil portraits- I was so happy I got a girl, I didn't love her before (wasn't in love), then so slowly started to draw. Her eye, imagine being able to spend hours staring at a beautiful person, using the pen or the pencil to help you concentrate on a very small part, the web of the eye. And yeah, she had to draw me. So now when I saw her...I need to love what I draw, So is there any way to get this now? What gives the most, the best emotion?...I don't quite understand. Sitting in the park sunday, having a picnic (I finally went to the store), noticing that there were often as many dogs as people in the park, or more. Very few people walk themselves.. only two guys, one woman, and all the rest were walking their pets. Two people came and sat down in the grass, crosslegged, knees close, facing eachother, they sat there looking at eachother and talking. She leaned forward and hugged him. (and so'd he) Time, and I can't imagine it, with any of you, don't know what I want anymore, just talk, feel there is a best place, best environment, best people, where would I go? What would.. Just go on, Let's just go on well, Sara said, "I have a friend in Portland, we read the same books and talk about them" "yeah.. I guess if you have someone to talk about them with its better" (what prose!) "do you like to read a lot of books?" "Yeah, well, It depends.." I haven't read since back from spring break (16th april) Started ellison's Invisible Man.. I played the piano for a while when I first got back (I'm not very good)....haven't done much for a while, I guess, have to think harder. "read 'The river why' and talk to me about it" "Ok.." "what's it about?" "it's sort of a funny (humor) book, It's my favorite--by duncan, I think" She gave me something to do, I'm doing it- I'll talk with her about it, maybe. I'm not looking for us all to be a book discussion group (if ever a group at all), I think there are simpler ways.. but this is progress for me, you know, a chance to learn something real about a female (other than my sisters.. Sara reminds me a little of Dana, my 18 year old sister, because of what she likes to do, not how she looks)(and how is that?) -- My xlock (locks the xterm while I'm away) puts the 'life' program on while I'm away (like a screen saver).. Lots of little things moving around forming patterns.. breaking apart.. like they say everything tends towards greater and greater chaos 'keyas' is that right? Evolution doesn't I guess- tends towards increasingly complex organisms-- is that right? A combination of manythings that came before. So that's where we're headed, our 'natural' <evil word, right?> course is to be one unified planet one unified universe..heh, may be going a little far here, but what have you seen happen, long term? Is what we humans do now still evolution, just more complex? it is still evolution we are those little bodies coming together, breaking apart forming more and more complex patterns, groups, no different than what has always happend.. always...what is that I was going to say I want to go to sabbath on friday because I want to see Heshem, not Hashem, which means 'the name' in Hebrew (I think I have this right..) so is a reference to the unreferenceable. He is one of those great guys, he's a Yemenite, I think, and has lived all over. "You see, It's tough to be Jewish" You can't buy or carry stuff on sabbath- starting at sundown on friday. We met his friend Peter, and some other big nordic guys as we walked from Hillel to Expresso Roma Cafe (where I met with sara about the herb garden the thursday before (same table even)) This guy peter looks like Arnold Swarzenniger (sp.. you get the idea), geez even the teeth- He's not near as big though, and the way he talks is close too.. He just reminded me, I think its the toothy smile. I saw him later, and he just looked like peter. Then some of the reform Jews, only two, a couple, bought coffe, actually another, her name is.. well I don't remember. We had Dimitri, Jessica, maybe mike, Heshem, and myself, and the other... Told a lot of Jewish jokes..(they did).. as we left they distributed bazooka joe gum in hebrew to curious kids in the cafe. A lot a lot of jokes, I'll try to remember some later. Oh, btw, in case you're worried my physical attraction is toward femails so far as I can tell-- Madonna's "when I think of you.. I like guys who are approchable, don't have the generic guy exterior, put up the generic guy front...usually don't spend time watching sports, I had a good talk with all but dave, and no good talk with any, but Kyle, sort of, so You can imagine I'm curious.. research.. animal desire.. here's something I wrote to jackson: What I would like to do with you is like I would like to do with any of those people, just meet and pass a soccerball or something most evenings/afternoons. If One of the women asked me to go on a trip, I would go, because I want to know them, and I would take any chance I could get because, they are so different, and I am so distant from them, to really talk to one of them would be incredible, I think, because I have never really had the chance, ever. I would think of the trip as a distraction though, except for the purpose of finding the best setting for communion. I imagine a deserted valley with steep mountains around, and grasses and flowers and trees, and we just get on a bus one Friday, and go there, and do nothing for a while. I was thinking of embodiment (his subject), and how reality can be nothing compared to what was hoped for, planned for, but it is so much more beautiful because it is real. I was wondering how much this has to do with body and how much with mind, and how the purely physical is obscene, but is there anything purely physical, no. So, I have so many questions for them, but being with them I will never ask them, because being with them is enough, but think of the future. The problem is the moment ends and then I do not know when I will see her again, and I know Unless I try I will know her only poorly and she (will become past, only) -well after a break, let me get back. I do such crazy/stupid/(cooly logical based on feeling) things, they are worth it, and something will come of them- ..as you would have them do to you, and it works -- right, uh, that's currently an unproven theory -- I know I'm going to wear {better and better, I Just got jen's mail, carbon, encouragement} carbon..its a computer here, you know..but I don't think thats the point. I know I'm going to wear what? I know I'm going to wear you all out with this- there is only so much you can read, and then you will skim and wear down, that is the chance.. also, I'm not jewish yet, don't think I can be (because of myself) I'm just finding out about it because of the people who are, the women (not all of course, some incredibly not, they're married) are strong, and have minds, the men are open (nother generalization) and talk about things, "the reason I come here is for the songs, it reminds me of my childhood, growing up" my family, the songs. I was just sitting there, said,"I'm new here" after asking how they called the bread, I thought maybe they had said "holum" but they said "chametz" and this guy (I don't have his name, anymore) says that. Thinking I heard 'holum' was eerie because of reading "the disposessed" Ursula K. Leguin <only if you have a lot of time> It's not all that way, I want more talking, but It's one of the best I've found. I checked out some sites (web sites) on Humanism, atheism, and did not feel comforted, though humanism seems in a way what I am speaking. "Some atheists become nihilists- that is, they believe there is no point to life" the sites are in my bookmarks.. I want to get to this book, ... "The river why" David James Duncan- published by the Sierra Club, San Francisco, 1983 Because of the humor, I didn't think much of it, keep reading I haven't finished yet, The guy is describing his craziness, his questions, and this is a fiction book. What do you think of coincidences? How often do those things happen to you that seem a little amazing that they happen when they do. I was just telling you about that energy bubble theory (while we're alive we're separate (sans <sans=without> meditation, or amazing events, when we feel together), when we die, we come back to the whole. It's mentioned here, and dropped, and he goes on... --- What I most want to know is how much of this is fiction? How much of is is real experience, and how much of it is a dream. I have thought of imagining, creating, writing, what I think would be best, eg. once imagined walking on the beach with Kyle, and would write a story about what happend- I didn't though- that's a problem with fiction an.am.ne.sis(n,)<><pl >-ne.ses >\->(ca. 1593)<anamn><anamimn><ana- >+ ><mimn>MIND 1: a recalling to mind: REMINISCENCE 2: a preliminary case history of a medical or psychiatric patient nec.ro.man.cy(n)(14c)<nigromancie, >fr. MF, fr. ML ><nigromantia, >by folk etymology fr. LL ><necromantia, >fr. LGk ><nekromanteia, >fr. Gk ><nekr- >+ ><-manteia >-mancy> 1: conjuration of the spirits of the dead for purposes of magically revealing the future or influencing the course of events 2: MAGIC, SORCERY -- nec.ro.man.cer <n >> -- nec.ro.man.tic <adj >> -- nec.ro.man.ti.cal.ly <adv (anamnesis is one of his subject headings, necromanced is used) (I'm reading off my notes) The guy, Gus, finally does exactly what he wants- fishes for 16 hours a day- he goes crazy, and starts to ask questions p107 "Simplify," said Henry Greenjeans Thoreau. "OK" said I: "Life is a lot of green crap inexorably turning gray. The examined life ain't worth chub." {after examining life, I was about to agree with him, but then I see you all can take this- I do think that of all utopias, Aldus Huxley's "Brave New World" makes sense, its a mindless, constantly occupied, happiness.. it doesn't work for thinking people (they get put on an island with other thinking people) but for most people it does (watch television, have sex, engage in hedonistic religious rituals, the perfect drug, soma if you have any problems)} p110 "Life," he began {hey, I feel bad about individuals, not answering them right away, that is why it is tough to email one person, here's more from the letter to jackson: What's up? There is a problem with email, that is, I send a girl I am in love with a message and think constantly about her, and worry etc, until.... She doesn't answer my message. Same thing here. You write this very cool letter- I get it last night, but have no time to do anything about it until now- while you (if you're like me, with any luck you're not) are no doubt worrying about the effect of the message on me, and while I worry about the effect of not answering for a while. Email is best avoided, so I am planning a move into an overpriced room where I will probably also pay for a telephone- but I am paying for something else as well, a space to invite people over. Email is good for giving me time to think- it can be a catalyst to the development of an Idea, but thinking and not doing is obscene. Its not all bad.} Specifically, I'm thinking about Jen working on a project, and is probably up now (11:22) still working, and will still be doing that for a while. Some people believe in prayer, or telepathy even. From experience, people don't know I'm thinking about them unless I tell them. Just thinking about someone does no good, except for yourself,....if it does. And David, too. It was wierd how the two arrived more than 12hrs after it was sent (my first two emails) you know, I feel a hypocrite (its in the back of my mind that I should be writing you first..what do you think.. well I know what I feel like doing- I feel like talking to those people, now, thinking of you over email, one at atime is tough, I want to get to the others.. so I answered Jen's, David's will take more time) p110 "Life," he began, "evolved from certain obscure enzymes in the Primordal Days. Competing for food, for mates, for favorable habitat and so forth, these minute slimy substances grew incredibly complex after aeons of evolution, and Humanity resulted! You see, Agustine, the the we call life is, in any individual creature, nothing more than a unit of Energy borrowed from the Sum Total. This Borrowed Unit remains in the creature until such time as its body becomes an unfit container for life energy, at which time 'death' --which is really nothing more than the moment when the borrowed unit is sucked back unto the Sum Total-- occurs. This Sum Total goes on progressing and improving and getting more sophisticated, while dead units only decay till there is nothing left of them but inorganic material that will eventually be reconstituted, by the Sum, into a new creature. Now, this Sum Total is precisely what primitive and superstitious people call 'God,' and though you and I will cease to exist when out borrowed energy units are returned to this 'God,' --I'll finish this later, Good night, and love, Colin good night moon